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‘Tying the Knot’: Some History Behind the Oft’ used Phrase
Ever wonder where the phrase "tying the knot" comes from as related to getting married? Let’s dive into the history and symbolism behind this popular expression.
The phrase "tying the knot" has roots in various cultures, where knots have symbolized unity, love, and commitment for centuries. In ancient Celtic, Hindu, and Egyptian wedding traditions, couples would literally tie a cord or fabric around their hands to represent their union. This practice is often known as handfasting. This simple knot was a visible sign of a couple’s union, symbolising that they were "bound" together in love and life.
- Celtic Knots of Love. In Celtic culture, tying hands together was a sacred ritual. During a handfasting ceremony, the couple’s hands would be wrapped in ribbons or cords as they exchanged vows, creating a symbolic "knot" that represented their connection.
- Ancient Egyptian Roots. The Egyptians also had a deep connection to knots as symbols of protection and eternity. Couples exchanged knotted jewelry or wore charms featuring knots, showing that their bond was as enduring as the symbols they wore.
- Hindu Traditions. At Hindu weddings, it’s still common for a piece of the bride’s sari to be tied to the groom’s scarf. This knot that represents unity and the intertwining of two lives. This ancient ritual beautifully illustrates the merging of lives, dreams, and families.
Today, the phrase "tying the knot" reminds us of the tradition and symbolism of commitment. While most modern weddings don’t involve literal knot-tying, the phrase captures the essence of connection, unity, and the start of a shared life.
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Marriage Certificates Made Simple – A handy guide
You've tied the knot in South Africa – congratulations! Now, you may be wondering about the different types of marriage certificates available from the Department of Home Affairs (DHA) and why you might need one over the other. Let's break it down…
In the South African context there are three marriage certificates available to you.
- You are provided a marriage certificate on the day of your wedding. It is a printed template, completed in hand by your Marriage Officer and used from time to time to prove your marriage. Some systems interface with the DHA and your status may ‘pop up’ automatically as a result during certain transactions. If you’re planning to live, work, and stay in South Africa, this certificate is generally sufficient. Take it on honeymoon! It may get you a free bottle of bubbles or a hotel room upgrade!
- Abridged Marriage Certificate
The abridged certificate is a printed version of the above, available over the counter at all DHA’s about a month after your wedding. It fulfils the same purpose as the hand written certificate, but is just more official looking!
- Unabridged Marriage Certificate (or Full Marriage Certificate)
An unabridged marriage certificate contains more comprehensive details about you and your spouse and is required for various legal and international applications. It’s a must if:
- You plan to emigrate or apply for a visa for certain countries
- You need it for citizenship of a foreign country, foreign passport applications or adoption proceedings
The Process to Obtain an Unabridged Marriage Certificate
To apply for this you will need a copy of your marriage register, this doc is also called the DHA-30, the doc you signed on the day of your wedding with your fingerprints and photos affixed. Your marriage officer can provide this. An agency can apply on your behalf, and this is recommended as it can be a headache. Take along/provide your agency with copies of your ID’s too, and a completed DHA 130 form available from the DHA. It can take up to six months to process, so it’s best to apply upfront before you find yourself in a situation when you need it and have to endure the long delay.
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