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When it comes to weddings, we have a lot to say. We’re passionate about curating beautiful and meaningful micro weddings and elopements for our lovely clients. We’re just as passionate about offering advice and sharing inspiration. Read our blogs for insights into planning your own (tiny) big day that’s fun-filled and totally unique.
‘Tying the Knot’: Some History Behind the Oft’ used Phrase
Ever wonder where the phrase "tying the knot" comes from as related to getting married? Let’s dive into the history and symbolism behind this popular expression. The phrase "tying the knot" has roots in various cultures, where knots have symbolized unity, love, and commitment for centuries. In ancient Celtic, Hindu, and Egyptian wedding traditions, couples would literally tie a cord or fabric around their hands to represent their union. This practice is often known as handfasting. This simple knot was a visible sign of a couple’s union, symbolising that they were "bound" together in love and life. Celtic Knots of...
Marriage Certificates Made Simple – A handy guide
You’ve tied the knot. Congratulations! You are officially, legally, gloriously married. And now, somewhere between the honeymoon glow and the thank-you card pile, a question surfaces: what exactly is this certificate I’m holding, and is it the right one? In South Africa, there are three marriage certificates available to you. They are not all equally necessary, and knowing the differences between them will save you a panicked phone call somewhere down the line. Here’s your no-nonsense guide. CERTIFICATE 1 — The Handwritten Certificate — DHA 1765 Received on your wedding day | Immediately valid | Sufficient for most SA-based purposes...
Romance and Reality: Antenuptial Contracts
A quick and important note before we begin: I am a Marriage Officer and micro wedding planner, not a lawyer. What follows is a general, plain-language overview of the three antenuptial contracts available to couples in South Africa. It is not legal advice, and it is not a substitute for a conversation with a qualified attorney. Amidst the romantic flurry of wedding planning, and before you say your 'I do's' it's essential to consider the real legal matters that will shape your marital journey. It is important to understand Ante Nuptial Contracts. Wether you think you want or need to...
Wedding Celebrants Celebrate! Marriage Officers Officiate!
When people discuss wedding planning, they usually enquire about the venue, dress, number of guests and honeymoon plans! The ceremony itself is an afterthought, or likely not given a thought at all! It is seen as a box to tick before getting to the ‘good part’ of the day. Flowers and menus are chosen months, even years prior, and the ceremony style or choice of marriage officer comes behind the aesthetic details. Sound familiar? Until fairly recently wedding ceremonies followed a typical pattern, and were usually led by a religious minister according to the structures and traditions of their or...